Forgive and forget. Easy words to say but not so easy to do. Forgiveness depends on how big your ego is. The bigger your ego the harder it is to forgive. The lesser your ego, the easier it is to forgive.
The harder it is to forgive someone, the more you hurt the bigger your ego.
The more we want other people to do what we want them to do, the more we will be disappointed. The more we want to dictate how other people should react the more hurt it will bring us.
Your ego is what tells you what you expect from situations and people. When this expectation doesn’t realize, your ego is hurt.
Because your ego is what get hurts, not you.
What we all should do is to remind ourselves that we can’t control other people. They just do what they think is right for them. This may not be right for you.
So just forgive them.
Lukas Engelbrecht
